Be it to me according to your
word
Luke 1:26-38
Khen Lim
Screen capture from the motion picture 'The Nativity Story' (2006)
Here’s a question for you – If you’re a little kid and your father whom you love so much suddenly asks you to do something that is so completely out of this world, how would you react, let alone respond?
And if what he wants you to do will, not only make you a complete laughing stock among your friends and family, but also cause them to shun you, would you still do it?
With all of this, would you think twice before you say yes, assuming you accept in the first place?
That’s what it would have felt like to be Mary (Heb. Miryam מרים meaning “beloved” or “love”), a little girl who would’ve just turned teenager at the time the angel Gabriel appeared in her life just as she was betrothed to marry Joseph. From the angel’s encounter with Mary, the announcement of Jesus’ birth offers us different angles for an emerging story and all of them should be familiar among us Christians:
And if what he wants you to do will, not only make you a complete laughing stock among your friends and family, but also cause them to shun you, would you still do it?
With all of this, would you think twice before you say yes, assuming you accept in the first place?
That’s what it would have felt like to be Mary (Heb. Miryam מרים meaning “beloved” or “love”), a little girl who would’ve just turned teenager at the time the angel Gabriel appeared in her life just as she was betrothed to marry Joseph. From the angel’s encounter with Mary, the announcement of Jesus’ birth offers us different angles for an emerging story and all of them should be familiar among us Christians:
One message from the announcement is that He will be the
Messiah, the prophesied and promised heir in line to David’s throne:
“He will be very great and
will be called the Son of the Most High. The Lord God will give Him the throne
of His ancestor David.” (Lk 1:32, NLT)
The other message is that Jesus is, at once, born divine and
human and is also figuratively and literally, the Son of God:
“The angel replied, ‘The Holy Spirit will come upon you, and the power
of the Most High will overshadow you. So the baby to be born will be holy and
He will be called the Son of God.” (v.35, NLT)
Although either message is important, there is another big
story in these passages written by Luke. It’s a message wrapped up in a
powerful lesson in true discipleship as well as one that offers us a peek into
Mary’s inner being. If you think about it, Jesus’ very first disciple would
have to be this truly young girl who, as His mother, gave birth to Him, surely
the youngest of all His disciples.
From Luke 1:26-38, we have the opportunity to try to understand
Mary’s response quality. The question we can ask is what it was that drove her
to respond to God in this way. In a very similar way, we can also ask ourselves
what our response is when God asks
something so seemingly impossible for us to do. In trying to gain a clearer
insight into Mary’s response, let us examine this young girl from four
perspectives, namely:
Firstly, we’ll take a look
at some background behind her young life from what we know
Secondly, we’ll study her
apprehension on encountering the angel Gabriel
Thirdly, we’ll examine the
wonder in Mary’s mind at that point in time and,
Lastly, we hope to learn
from her incredible submissiveness in spirit.
Then we’ll round it off by looking at her faith and what
lessons we can draw from it.
Part I: Mary’s life as foretold
Screen capture from the motion picture 'The Nativity Story' (2006)
Screen capture from the motion picture 'The Nativity Story' (2006)
“In the sixth month of Elizabeth’s pregnancy,
God sent the angel Gabriel to Nazareth, a village in Galilee, to a virgin named
Mary. She was engaged to be married to a man named Joseph, a descendant of King
David. Gabriel appeared to her and said, ‘Greetings,
favoured woman! The Lord is with you!” (Lk 1:26-28, NLT, my emphasis)
The Bible tells us that Elizabeth (Heb.
Elisheva, אֱלִישֶׁבַע
meaning “An oath to my God”) was
Mary’s much older cousin who lived with her husband Zacharias in Hebron in the
hill country. According to the Mandaean Gospel of John (the Baptist), his
mother (referred to as Enishbai, see below) was eighty-eight years old when he
was born while his father was eleven years her senior:
“‘My father,’ says Yahyā (John), ‘was ninety and nine and my mother
eighty and eight years old. Out of the basin of Jordan, they took me. They bore
me up and laid me in the womb of Enishbai. ‘Nine months,’ said they, ‘thou
shalt stay in her womb, as do all other children.’ ‘No wise woman,’ said he,
‘brought me into the world in Judæa, and they have not cut my cord in
Jerusalem. They made for me no picture of lies and for me hung up no bell of
deceit. I was born from Enishbai in the region of Jerusalem.’”
Note: The Mandaean Gospel
of John is holy scripture written in Mandæic Aramaic and is believed by
Mandaeans to have been authored by John the Baptist himself, their chief
prophet. Mandaeanism is a gnostic religion with a strong dualist worldview. Its
followers revere Adam, Abel, Seth, Enos, Noah, Shem, Aram and particularly,
John the Baptist. The Mandaeans do exist today and are largely in Iraq.
Elizabeth was pregnant with John the Baptist just at the time
Mary was carrying Jesus. The angel Gabriel’s announcement to Mary took place
about six months after her cousin’s pregnancy.
Leaving her hometown of Nazareth in the hilly southwest part
of the Sea of Galilee “with haste” and travelling into the city of Hebron in
the hill country of Judah, she visited and stayed with Elizabeth for roughly
three months. This was after she was told by the angel that her cousin was in
her sixth month of pregnancy.
In case we’re wondering, that was a four-day journey of about 140 to 160 kilometres – for someone this young and pregnant that was no small feat. In greeting Mary at her arrival, Elizabeth acted prophetically, sensing that her young cousin would be “the mother of my Lord.”
In case we’re wondering, that was a four-day journey of about 140 to 160 kilometres – for someone this young and pregnant that was no small feat. In greeting Mary at her arrival, Elizabeth acted prophetically, sensing that her young cousin would be “the mother of my Lord.”
Despite her tender age, Mary had an uncanny ability to take
quick but decisive action. Other than her hasty journey to see Elizabeth, she then
made the trip to Bethlehem for the census before going to Egypt. Every year
after that, she and Joseph would also sojourn to Jerusalem like all Jews did.
In John 2:12, we also learn that Mary followed Jesus and His
disciples to Capernaum and seventeen chapters later, in 19:25-27, the apostle recorded
that she was back in Jerusalem for those fateful days of the Passion. The last
we heard of her in the New Testament was the time in the Upper Room in the
company of the apostles including some other women as well as her other sons,
all of whom were united in prayer.
The enigma of Mary’s limited entries in the Bible makes for
interesting discussion. It’s all quite strange, considering that she was the
last of five women to be mentioned in the genealogy of Jesus. She was also the
most natural given that she was the only human – and the rightful mother of
Jesus – so closely involved in His conception and birth. Her significance and
special place in the Bible should be palpable and yet, we know so little of
her.
There is simply insufficient details to help us build a proper
portrayal of this young girl, not even a brief one. For example, we hardly know
anything about how she brought up Jesus as a little boy. In fact, we don’t even
know what really happened to Joseph, her husband. In learning that he was a
carpenter, chances are that Jesus learned from him but for how long and when?
Did Joseph die young? Or did he leave?
Scene between Mary (left) and her mother Anna (right) in the motion picture 'The Nativity Story' (2006)
Scene between Mary (left) and her mother Anna (right) in the motion picture 'The Nativity Story' (2006)
Based on Jewish tradition of the day, the likelihood was that
Joseph was far more advanced than Mary in age. The apocryphal Proto-Evangelium
of James, written around 150AD, presents him as an old man who was chosen by
God, probably on the basis that he was from the Davidic line, to watch over
Mary.
The other apocryphal, the History of Joseph the Carpenter, written during the 5th century, focuses on the biography of Joseph according to Jesus, puts him at the age of 90 when he married Mary at the age of 14½. The book records Joseph’s death at 111 years old. But remember, none of these are official and therefore highly debatable.
The other apocryphal, the History of Joseph the Carpenter, written during the 5th century, focuses on the biography of Joseph according to Jesus, puts him at the age of 90 when he married Mary at the age of 14½. The book records Joseph’s death at 111 years old. But remember, none of these are official and therefore highly debatable.
Other than her encounter with the angel, we only know, from
Scripture, that Jesus asked the apostle John to care for her in His dying hour
(Jn 19:27) but other than that, information about her life from thereon is
sparse. And if we don’t know that much, we surely have no idea how, when and
where she died. It seems hard to believe that we know far more about certain
other women mentioned in Scripture than we do of Mary.
Is Mary insignificant in
the Bible (New Testament)?
Although the New Testament presents various different
viewpoints concerning who Mary was, we still have to piece them altogether
though even so, it remains disjointed and none more so than the Gospels to
prove this point. Here’s where both Matthew and Mark offer little input while Luke,
much like John, focuses on quite different things. And in the end, the story
isn’t coherent with stuttering gaps from her birth to her death. In essence
therefore, only certain parts of Mary’s life are available.
Given that Mary was Jesus’ biological mother, the New
Testament disappoints. As a result, the paucity of details can be hard to
understand. If it weren’t for Luke, we would end up knowing nothing about Mary.
And because it is he who believes in Mary’s importance as a key character, he
could draw the story of Jesus’ birth from her account, derive her thoughts and
feelings. From Mary through Luke’s words, we now know what she was doing, how
she reacted and then responded to the angel Gabriel.
But even so, there is so much more to Mary that we would’ve
liked to know and learn. Unlike Luke though, pretty much the rest of the New
Testament offers a somewhat negative – or absent – view of Mary. Given that
Matthew’s intended audience were Jews, he writes from a strict traditional male
perspective and that means very little, if at all, of Mary will be available.
In a male-dominated narrative, her account wouldn’t be as interesting to his
readers as Joseph’s.
On the other hand, Mark talks of Mary in conjunction with
Jesus’ family although if you read carefully, you’ll find that he writes as if
she stood in the way of Jesus and His message. So, overall, the Gospel writers
are loathed to go into any particular detail about Mary unless it is because
there are important facets about Jesus that mentioning her becomes unavoidable.
Then again, there are information on Mary that is outside the
purview of the New Testament though one must be circumspect and prudent when it
comes to authenticity. Of those available, quite possibly the only one that
appears interesting is the Protoevangelium of James.
Written around 145AD, this is the apocryphal Gospel of James
or as some know it as the Infancy Gospel of James (or even the Book of James). It
goes back in time to the infancy stories that are found in the Gospels of
Matthew and Luke and then expands them with a narrative that brings fresh
details to the birth and upbringing of Mary herself. Outside of the New
Testament, this is the oldest source of information that tells us of the
virginity of Mary not only before but during and also after Jesus’ birth.
From the Gospel of James, we learn much about Mary’s
upbringing, her parents and the age at which she conceived Jesus and so on. But
it’s unlikely that they’re all entirely true and that is, of course,
disappointing. Still, that hasn’t stopped many other ancient writers to
preserve the book, using different titles like ‘The Birth of Mary,’ ‘The Story
of the Birth of Saint Mary, Mother of God’ and ‘The Birth of Mary; the
Revelation of James.’
Take note also that none of the Gospels were authored in the
few decades following Jesus’ death; the earliest being Mark’s (66-70AD) and
then followed by Matthew and Luke (85-90AD) with John at the tail-end
(90-110AD). Remember also that each of them was deliberately written for choice
audiences with different interests in mind. These readers had divergent
cultural and traditional values as well. In other words, one who is meant to
read a particular Gospel was likely to not share the same thinking with another
for whom was meant a different Gospel. And of course, all of that means there
are variations in theological overtones.
The simple fact that Mary is even mentioned in the New
Testament is in itself not insignificant. After all, if it didn’t have anything
to do with Jesus or the growth of the Early Church, there are few reasons, if
at all, to mention her. She could very well be consigned to a few footnotes at
best. Besides, if we take note that Jesus’ earthly father Joseph basically
disappeared and that we too hardly know anything about him, Mary’s appearance
is an acknowledgement that in the nascent years of the Early Church, she did
hold some sway.
Over the next few centuries (as late as five hundred years
after Jesus’ death), Mary simply became the brunt of hostilities between the
Jewish and Christian groups. Jewish writings of that period referred to her by
her Jewish name, Miriam. Probably out of vindictiveness, some considered her
nothing more than a hairdresser and that Jesus was an illegitimate offspring of
a Roman soldier by the name of Panthera.
In recent centuries with the rise of Reformation followed by
Protestantism, Mary could have been further victimised. With the Roman Catholic
Church venerating her, Protestant Christendom went the opposite way although,
to be fair, there was no reason for any of us not to admire her godliness and
submissiveness and the very truth that God found favour in her. None of these
we could ever take away from Mary but we are right not to venerate someone who
is pure human and not a God. And maybe that could be the reason why the apostle
Paul hardly ever mentioned her by name through all his letters. Neither did
Peter.
Realise too that first-century Jewish women had limited
rights, both legally and economically. Insofar as economic rights, a young and
unmarried Jewish girl like Mary was expected to live with her family and be
part of the household, doing her fair share of the chores at home.
If she had a job, her wages went straight to her father and if
her father was deceased, her mother would be the recipient. If she was married,
she would of course leave her family and cleave to her husband to whom her wages
belong. In other words, unless she was a widow fending for herself, someone
like Mary would be neither financially or legally independent.
On the issue of divorce, Jewish women had it just as bad, if
not worse. Divorces were a one-way street – Jewish men did the divorcing but
not their women. If she were to attempt divorce proceedings – assuming she was
bold enough – she’d lose everything including property and children. This means
that she would not have legal access to her inheritances and her husband would gain
complete responsibility over their children, which might imply visitation
rights as well.
As it turned out, it’s not difficult to find such information.
In fact, the Bible proves useful in this respect but there are also other handy
literary sources. Other than the renowned Flavius Josephus (37-100AD), here is
a short list of some of the other well-known historians-cum-writers of the
period:
Pliny the Elder (23-79AD) a.k.a. Gaius Plinius Secundus; author, naturalist,
natural philosopher and naval and army commander; author of the celebrated
Natural History, an encyclopaedic work of uneven accuracy that purported to
cover all ancient knowledge
Pliny the Younger (61-113AD) a.k.a. Gaius Plinius Caecilius Secundus; lawyer,
author, magistrate and nephew to Pliny the Elder; left behind a rich collection
of private letters of great literary charm but essentially focused on the
public and private life of ancient Rome
Eusebius of Caesarea (263-339AD) a.k.a. Eusebius Pamphili; historian, exegete,
Christian polemicist and bishop of Caesarea Maritima; scholar of Biblical canon
whose account of first-century Christianity called Ecclesiastical History, is a
landmark in Christian historiography
Philo Judaeus (25BC-c.50AD) a.k.a Philo of Alexandria; Hellenistic Jewish
philosopher; said to have impacted the apostle Paul as well as John through his
writings and was the pioneer conceptualist behind Logos to mean the Divine Mind
Publius Cornelius Tacitus (58-117AD) a.k.a. Gaius Cornelius Tacitus; senator,
historian, orator, public official and author; known to be one of the greatest
Roman historians; in his final work called Annals, he wrote of the existence of
early Christians in Rome as well as about Christ and His execution
Other than the gnostic-based Gospel of James, there are other
apocryphal writings although, again, accuracy and consistency might be
problematic. Many Jews tend to rely on early rabbinical texts that do reveal
interesting aspects of Jewish life, culture and tradition of that period. Like
Pliny the Elder and Tacitus, there are Roman texts throughout the provinces of
Rome that have survived the thousands of years and remain accessible today not
to mention also archaeological findings through material clues that reveal the
way the Jews lived, ate and worked. Unearthed artefacts offer up highly
interesting details such as cooking, eating and farming utensils.
Hailing from an allegedly poor family, Mary, like most Jewish
girls, would have spent her time giving a hand to helping out however way
possible. This can mean tending over kitchen stoves, making the beds, washing
and folding the clothes, preparing meals, looking after livestock, drawing
water from wells and cisterns and where required, attending to repairs that the
house required from time to time.
And of course, besides daily chores, many Jewish women grew up
to take on jobs that brought income back to the family though she’d hardly keep
any for herself with most if not all of it going to the father. While all these
sound ominous for today’s modern and sophisticated urban women, they were what
was expected of Jewish girls living in first-century Roman Palestine.
Of course, it matters that Mary did not possess apostolic
authority although some Mariaphiles might argue that she should, taking into account
her being Jesus’ first disciple and that she was, after all, His biological
mother. Without a doubt, she was looked upon with great favour by God and in
fact, it was He who, among so many other Jewish girls, specifically picked her
out for the virgin birth.
However,
none of these necessarily suggest that she would play as significant a role as
Jesus’ disciples. Remember, Jesus did not include His mother in ministry work
the way He did with His disciples. Besides, in an age where men dominated
society, it is not hard to imagine Mary and all other Jewish women not given
the same opportunities as the men.
At her age and despite being betrothed, the chances are that Mary
would have continued living with her parents that is, until she left with
Joseph for Bethlehem where she gave birth to Jesus. In true Jewish tradition, the
young and unassuming Mary would also have done her fair share of the difficult
and heavy work in a town not known for anything outstanding let alone a popular
destination.
Amidst the drudgery that many Jewish women would have to endure at that time, her single most anticipated event in her life at that point in time would have to be the her wedding to a local carpenter. Other than that, nothing in the Bible tells us that she was any more outstanding than the many other girls of her age in Nazareth.
Screen capture from the motion picture 'The Nativity Story' (2006)
Amidst the drudgery that many Jewish women would have to endure at that time, her single most anticipated event in her life at that point in time would have to be the her wedding to a local carpenter. Other than that, nothing in the Bible tells us that she was any more outstanding than the many other girls of her age in Nazareth.
Screen capture from the motion picture 'The Nativity Story' (2006)
While it might be presumptuous to say that Mary was a mediocre
Jewish girl, ordinary might be a better description given that her life was
nothing too special compared to the rest. Yet God chose her and not some other
girl. Remember, there was nothing extraordinary about Mary. Scripture also says
nothing about her being exceptionally attractive. Or unusually intelligent. For
all we may know, she was no Miss Israel. And so, that’s the point – it wasn’t
Mary’s piousness, beauty, smarts or worthiness but simply put, God’s favour. As
the angel said to her, “Greetings, favoured woman!” (Lk 1:28, NLT)
If Mary was just an ordinary Jewish girl, Nazareth was no
trailblazing city either. Known more as a sleepy hollow perched in a high
valley area of Galilee, Jerusalemites were long contemptuous of its inhabitants.
The disciple Nathanael once said, “Can any good thing come from Nazareth?” (Jn
1:46), alluding to the town’s lowly reputation. But then again, the angel
Gabriel did not go to the religious hub of the nation or the capital. Instead,
he went to the obscure and ill-reputed Nazareth whom no one cared much for and
it was there that he announced to a young and innocent girl that she was God’s
choice of His human instrument to bring forth His Son into the world.
In that same announcement, the angel informed Mary that her
own cousin was already six months pregnant. Exactly why she was told this piece
of news is not clear but then her cousin Elizabeth was not exactly young when
she discovered she was pregnant. A righteous woman of a priestly lineage, she miraculously
gave birth to John the Baptist as an old woman, reminiscent of Sarah, wife of
the patriarch Abraham. This birth was foretold to her husband, Zacharias (Heb. Zəḵaryāh זכריה or Greek Ζαχαρίας meaning “remember Yah”)
by an angel who told him to name the baby John and that he would be the forerunner of the Lord (Lk 1:12-17).
We are told that Zacharias was at that time ministering at the
altar of incense at the Temple of Jerusalem. To that piece of startling news,
he was stumped, expressing doubt because he felt he and his wife were too far
advanced in age to consider an addition to their family. Besides, Elizabeth was
supposedly barren.
But that’s where Zacharias might have had taken leave of history for had he recalled, he would have remembered how that was the case with Abraham and Sarah. But he didn’t. And the price he paid for his doubt was considerable – the angel struck him dumb and he stayed that way “until the day these things take place, because you did not believe my words, which will be fulfilled in their own time” (Lk 1:20b, NLT).
But that’s where Zacharias might have had taken leave of history for had he recalled, he would have remembered how that was the case with Abraham and Sarah. But he didn’t. And the price he paid for his doubt was considerable – the angel struck him dumb and he stayed that way “until the day these things take place, because you did not believe my words, which will be fulfilled in their own time” (Lk 1:20b, NLT).
At the same time, his wife Elizabeth chose seclusion for five
whole months. When she realised her ‘predicament,’ she felt too embarrassed to
be seen in public. By the sixth month of her pregnancy – the time when the
angel told Mary of the news – her much-younger cousin travelled to their home
to pay her a visit. On Zacharias’ return home, Elizabeth finally conceived
(vv.24-25).
From Luke’s account of Mary’s encounter with the angel and the
surrounding events plus what Jewish customs and tradition then tells us, Mary
wasn’t just a virgin but at 12 to 12½ years old (customarily), she was also
extraordinarily young. On the other hand, the carpenter she was to marry was
apparently on the wrong side of ninety but that wasn’t something her parents
weren’t aware of since they were very likely the ones who arranged the
marriage.
We are also told that by past convention, an actual Jewish
marriage actually involved two steps, beginning with the betrothal and an
interval of several months to a year when the young girl would have been taken
to the prospective groom’s home. At some point, there would have to be a
wedding celebration much like the one in Cana where Jesus performed His first
miracle, turning water into wine (Jn 2:1-11).
Once they began to live together, the couple, in this case
Mary and Joseph – would be considered properly married. And because marriages
then were arranged and agreed upon between parents, the boy and/or girl could
easily have been engaged as early as five years old. Mary wouldn’t have had a
say in who she married since that was the case.
More about traditional
Jewish betrothals and weddings
In the times of Jesus, people did get married young and the
marriages were contracted in a closed group comprising the family and members
of the clan. The reason for that was simple – no one was keen to introduce any
foreign elements into their culture. In that sense therefore, marriage is an
agreement not between the bride and the groom but instead, between their two
families.
Finding and agreeing to a match between a boy and a girl was
something between the two fathers but even so, it was always the boy’s father who
was more concerned about his matrimonial prospects. Hence, it was the girl’s
father who received the dowry (Heb. mohar)
as part of the traditional Jewish wedding contract (Heb. ketubah). The mohar
wasn’t always in cash terms as we saw how Abraham’s servant, who, after his
request for Rebecca to marry Isaac, was granted, “brought out silver and gold
jewellery and clothing and presented them to Rebekah. He also gave expensive
presents to her brother and mother” (Gen 24:52-53, NLT). In that act, the servant
gave gifts (Heb. mattan) to Isaac’s
intended bride and the mohar to her
brother and mother.
To understand the significance of the mohar, consider that in the marriage, the groom’s family gained a
new member in their household* while the bride’s family lost a valuable member
to help them in their daily chores. Hence, the mohar can be seen as compensation equating to the value of the
daughter lost to another family.
[* In most new marriages therefore, the married man usually
finds somewhere in his family’s house first before contemplating a new home of
their own.]
The hallmark of traditional Jewish marriages at least up to
the Middle Ages were the two ceremonies punctuated by separate celebrations at
two separate times. These were set apart with an interval in between. The
origins of this division (into two separate events) were from ancient times
when marriage was deemed no more than a purchase in both its outward form and
inner meaning. As such, the girl was no more than just chattel to be bought in
marriage. In harsh terms then, she was not recognised as a person.
The first ceremony was the betrothal (Heb. erusin) where the girl was officially
and legally married but she would remain in her father’s home. Being legally
married meant that she did not belong to any other man unless she faced
divorcement from her betrothed. The second ceremony comprised the wedding (Heb.
nissuin), which was marked by a
colourful procession in which the betrothed girl was brought from her family
home to the house of her groom. There, the legal tie between the two would be
consummated.
Because Jewish tradition long regarded marriage as a form of
contractual purchase, there were two distinct acts, the first of which
consisted of payment of the price (the mohar)
and a detailed agreement based on the conditions of the ‘sale’ between the two
families followed later by the ‘purchaser’ taking possession of the object,
which would occur in the second ceremony (the wedding).
So long
as marriage was seen as a purchase agreement, the betrothal was the more vital
of the two events but once women began progressively exerting their importance
as individuals, marriage was less seen as a purchase and instead acquired a
more meaningful moral significance. Once that happened, the betrothal began to
be shaded by the actual wedding.
In other words, the girl had no say in who she married because
that decision was made between hers and the prospect’s family, eventually
becoming a mutually agreed legal contract. Leaving behind her parents and all the
people she had grown accustomed to would have been traumatic for someone so
young like Mary. And then to go live in an alien household would simply
compound the problem.
Given that the betrothal period was a commitment in readiness
for marriage, breaking it off was tantamount to having it in writing as a
divorcement. In fact, betrothal is so alike a marriage that should the groom
die within that period, the girl would be akin to a virgin widow. When Joseph
discovered that Mary was pregnant, he could have swiftly annulled the
relationship and thus formally instituted proceedings to actually divorce her.
It was only because the angel got to him in time that helped save it from
falling apart.
Surprisingly complex genealogical issues
Screen capture showing a pregnant Mary (on donkey) and Joseph (far right) bidding farewell to her parents Joachim and Anna as they embark for Bethlehem in the motion picture 'The Nativity Story' (2006)
Mary’s descendant line is a little complex but we do nonetheless know that her cousin Elizabeth came from the genealogy of the original Levite high priest, Aaron (Lk 1:5). However, Mary herself may have had Davidic roots on her father’s side on the basis that Jesus would inherit “the throne of His father David…and reign over the house of Jacob forever” (Lk 1:32-33). Arguably, Luke’s mention of Jesus’ ancestry could offer us a look at Mary’s lineage as well although this isn’t without dispute (Lk 3:23-38).
On the other hand, Joseph’s case isn’t as clear cut. The
Gospel of Matthew does mention in his genealogy that he was in fact a
descendant of David and as such, was a member of the royal family. This was an
important point because more than a thousand years of prophecies had pointed to
Jesus coming from the seed of David. However, a possible fly in the ointment
commonly called, the ‘curse of Jeconiah’ might get in the way and if this is
proven true and applicable, Jesus might after all not be able to claim the
throne of David.
The ‘curse of Jeconiah’ (a.k.a. ‘Jehoiachin,’ see 1 Chr 3:16
or ‘Coniah,’ see Jer 22:24) bears reference to the king of Judah who was
captured by the Babylonians and deported (Est 2:6, 1 Chr 3:17). In fact, he is
listed in the genealogy of Jesus and is in Joseph’s lineage (Mt 1:12). The
prophet Jeremiah spoke of the same curse where God likened the king to a signet
ring on His hand, which “I would pull you off” (Jer 22:24), symbolising the
Lord’s intense displeasure with him. In verse 30, God pronounces a very clear curse,
saying:
“Let the record show that this man Jehoiachin
was childless. He is a failure, for none
of his children will succeed him
on the throne of David to rule over Judah.” (Jer 22:30, NLT, my emphasis)
The problem with this curse is that it appears to invalidate
Jesus’ right to the throne of David. The Davidic Covenant promised that the
Messiah, the ‘Son of David,’ would forever rule upon Jerusalem’s throne (1 Chr
17:11-14). However if Jesus is a descendant from the line of Jeconiah, this
might actually not be possible because the curse would have been a severe
compromise. It would have barred any of Jeconiah’s descendants – and that
included Jesus – from claiming the throne of David!
To see if that is possible, let us consider the following three
possibilities.
In the first possibility, we look at Jeconiah’s offspring for
clues. Reading the text more closely, it is possible that God’s curse was
specifically trained on his immediate offspring but not beyond. As I have
highlighted above in verse 30, “none of his children” could be literal, meaning
it doesn’t extend down the genealogical line.
What this then means is that the curse was only effective
while Jeconiah was still alive. In fact, as it turned out, that was exactly
what happened. In his failure over the three months of his abrupt reign after
his capture and deportation to Babylon, none of his seven sons got to rule
Judah (1 Chr 3:17-18).
While that was fairly straightforward, the second possibility
mightn’t be. Here, we focus on Mary’s virgin birth where Jesus’ biological
parentage comprised only one human, meaning Mary. No doubt that in Mary’s case,
she was a descendant not of Jeconiah but of David (Lk 3:31).
As for Joseph, Mary’s betrothed, the closest role he played
was that of Jesus’ legal father. He had no place in Jesus’ biological makeup
because his contribution to His parentage was never a physical one. What this
means is that Jesus retained the royal bloodline through Mary and with that,
the curse of Jeconiah came to an abrupt halt since Joseph had no means of
passing it on to Him.
As for the third possibility, God could have actually reversed
the curse back on Jeconiah’s family. Let’s take a look at what Haggai told
Zerubbabel, Jeconiah’s grandson as far as God would, in His pleasure, make a
‘signet ring’ for him on His hand:
“Tell Zerubbabel, the governor of Judah, that
I am about to shake the heavens and the earth. I will overthrow royal thrones
and destroy the power of foreign kingdoms. I will overturn their chariots and
riders. The horses will fall and their riders will kill each other. But when
this happens, says the Lord of Heaven’s Armies, I will honour you, Zerubbabel,
son of Shealtiel, my servant. I will
make you like a signet ring on My finger, says the Lord, for I have chosen you.
I, the Lord of Heaven’s Armies, have spoken!” (Hag 2:21-23, NLT, my emphasis)
I certainly don’t believe that the “signet ring” was repeated
here out of sheer coincidence since both Zerubbabel and Jeconiah are directly
and closely related. In fact, it was repeated to show how God honoured and
blessed the grandson and He used the same “ring” analogy to do it. Another
interesting fact is that some rabbinical texts teach that Jeconiah did repent
in Babylon, resulting in God forgiving him and lifting the curse.
Moving past the curse, let’s not forget that the apostle
Paul’s introduction to his letter to the Romans bears reference to Jesus being
of the seed of David as foretold in Scripture. From the promises, He was also to
be the seed of the woman, which would then be necessitated by the virgin birth.
From the prophet Isaiah, God made a similar promise that a virgin would
conceive and bear a Son and His name would be Immanuel.
Part II: The trepidation of Mary’s heart
The moment Mary felt fear suddenly encountering the angel Gabriel in the motion picture 'The Nativity Story' (2006)
The moment Mary felt fear suddenly encountering the angel Gabriel in the motion picture 'The Nativity Story' (2006)
“Confused and disturbed, Mary tried to think
what the angel could mean. ‘Don’t be
afraid, Mary,’ the angel told her, ‘for you have found favour with God!”
(Lk 1:29-30, NLT, my emphasis)
It is useful to note that Mary was hardly older than 14 years
of age (if not younger) when she encountered the angel Gabriel. Fresh in her
teen years, she was very likely an innocent and naïve girl. At that age,
nothing prepares anyone for an unplanned meeting with an angel! So, for her to
become “confused and disturbed” shouldn’t be surprising. The angel’s sudden
appearance would have been startling enough to cause her to be uncertain and
somewhat defensive.
In his Gospel, Luke said Mary was greatly troubled. The Greek
translation for that word is ‘diatarassó’ (Gk. διαταράσσω),
which is a verb for “to agitate greatly” or “greatly disturbed.” Within the
context of how Luke uses the word, Canadian author and Professor of Hellenistic
Greek, George Abbott-Smith (1864-1947) puts it as, “intensely going
back-and-forth between inner thoughts and emotions.” In other words, she wasn’t
exactly excited or awestruck but rather very undecided and unsure of herself.
Some people might think that such a rare encounter with an
angel would make one the talk of the town but for Mary, it was probably just
the opposite. In her state of confusion, she wouldn’t have been in the right
frame of mind to stand at the top of the mountain and shout out joyously. Come
to think of it, it probably wasn’t the best day of her life either. More likely,
she had every reason to feel very troubled on the inside.
Seeing how Mary became so unsettled, the angel Gabriel
responded, saying, “Don’t be afraid, Mary…” Here, the word ‘afraid’ comes from
the Greek word ‘phobeó’ (Gk. φοβέομαι),
which means “to terrify” or “to be in an apprehensive state.” It paints a
picture of a very young girl gripped with fear, confusion and perplexity. But
again, this shouldn’t be surprising.
It’s not as if any of us meets a real angel every day or if at
all. When something – or someone – forces you to take a few steps back, it can
be quite disconcerting, forcing all sorts of alarms to go off in your head that
compel you to become defensive in the way you respond. It’s not just angels
that would do that to any of us; sudden changes in general often force us to go
on our back foot. But then most of us would react in the same way. And since Mary
was so much younger than most of us, the whole experience would have been terrifying.
There’s no doubt too that a terrified Mary would be wondering
what “favour” God found in someone like her. As Nathanael said, nothing amazing
ever happened in Nazareth and that included its inhabitants. It was no magnet
for academic brilliance or remarkable sportspeople. Neither was it a place
where the rich and famous resided nor was it a seat of political power. It was
a nothing town. And Mary was essentially a nothing person. So, why her?
The angel Gabriel said, “Don’t be afraid, Mary … for you have
found favour with God.” In the Douay-Rheims Bible translation, the same verse
reads quite differently:
“And the angel being come in, said unto her:
Hail, full of grace, the Lord is
with thee: blessed art thou among women.” (Lk 1:28, DRB, my emphasis)
The Greek word for “favour” in this context is ‘kecharitomene’
(Gk. Κεχαριτωμένη), which literally, means,
“You, who have been graced.” The KJV puts it as, “You that are highly
favoured.” The interchangeability between the words “grace” and “favour” is not
without logic. The original Greek word, ‘charito’ (or ‘charis’) means “a gift,
something that is free or unmerited.”
In other words, grace is unmerited favour, something we do not
deserve but nonetheless, God offers it to Mary (and us), which means that
neither she nor anyone of us was born with it. It was His gift for something
she did. In His eyes, Mary not only believed in Him but she walked in a way
that pleased Him through spiritual growth and service. That certainly does not
mean that she was sinless but instead, it said volumes about the way she went
about life that all of us are equally as capable of but only a few would.
But even so, here’s the dichotomy – although Mary’s response
might appear normal and spiritually healthy, there was a potential risk that
could have brought ruin to such an opportunity. Recall that Mary was awash with
fear on the sudden encounter with the angel Gabriel, which was why he had to
reassure her not to. He didn’t even have to wait for her to say anything.
Sensing her being “confused and disturbed,” it was enough for him to settle her
nerves.
Mary (left) and her cousin Elizabeth (right) in Hebron in the motion picture 'The Nativity Story' (2006)
Mary (left) and her cousin Elizabeth (right) in Hebron in the motion picture 'The Nativity Story' (2006)
Mary could have seriously stumbled. She could have allowed her
fear to get the better of her just like it is with us. Fear could have
controlled her and then shift the whole narrative to a trajectory that was not
God’s intention. On seeing something so unfamiliar as an angel, Mary could have
run away in complete fear. Or she could have remained frozen, rooted to the
ground and not respond at all. Quite possibly, fear could have consumed her to
the extent that she’d chased the angel away.
In other words, any of us could have been just as shocked. Any
of us could have reacted in a way that wouldn’t bring pleasure to God. Any of
us could have produced a response that is neither fruitful nor productive let
alone bring glory to Him. Make no mistake about it – we could all have ended up
cowering in trembling and trepidation.
In truth, many of us are like that. We do live in fear,
fearing one thing or another. Many of us allow fear to creep into our lives so
much so that we become afraid of life itself. We become so unsure with every
step we take because we unwittingly allow fear to reshape our lives. To be
afraid is not about avoiding risks. Instead, being overly nervous and anxious
shuts us off from literally anything that might have yielded better results
than we thought. Invariably, what we end up doing is to mentally stumble
ourselves.
Fear has many faces but that doesn’t mean all of us are
familiar with them. Being negative and pessimistic is a real sign of fear. Negativity
leading to depression is a result of uncontrolled fear. Turning back home and
not having dinner just because of gathering dark clouds is a common form of
fear. Watching a soccer match and being wildly fatalistic every time the
opposition team is on the attack is another one although seemingly harmless.
Hysteria at the first sign of the country’s declining economy is definitely
another good example.
On an everyday basis, we can fear the food we eat and the
drinks we consume, afraid that they may be contaminated. Because someone was kidnapped
from her morning jog and now suspected dead, we fear going out for a walk. We
hear of growing divorce numbers and then fear our spouse leaving us. With so
many forms of crippling illnesses, we fear getting sick. As we grow old, we
fear Alzheimer’s or Parkinson’s or worse, both. And with crippling rising costs
of living, we fear we might not have enough to retire on.
You can probably come up with your own examples. Fear can have
such a grip on life that we waste a lot of time and effort fighting it when we
could have used it to do positive things. Without a doubt, the one thing fear
does to us is to cause us to lose touch with reality. We replace reality with a
make-belief world that everything will fall into pieces around us. We become so
mentally distorted simply because we encounter something far too unusual for us
to understand or relate to.
And instead of remaining calm, reasonable and curious, we
react like a trigger response, acting on our innate fear as part of a wider
defensive mechanism as we seek to avoid, prevent or reject change. Therefore,
rather than giving into an experience where we can gain something positive
from, fear clouds our sensibilities and deny us all of that. It does that by
overcrowding out what’s left of our faith, turning us into poor and aimless
disciples.
So, while we call ourselves Christians, we have, in effect,
turned into immovable monoliths who, after being stonewalled by fear, freeze at
the thought of doing courageous things for Christ, things that would otherwise
transform us from the inside out. In turn, fear prevents us from being in God’s
plan.
If we are to remain true to Christ and powerfully equipped by
the Holy Spirit, this means we must resist the kind of entrenched siege
mentality that makes us grow our unbelief and become paranoid about others. We
must stop ourselves from creating a breeding ground of hostility against
everyone around us. If we leave fear unchecked, we will invariably allow it to
control our minds and set us up for long-term failure.
Part III: The wonder in Mary’s mind
Mary in her encounter with the angel Gabriel in the motion picture 'The Nativity Story' (2006)
Mary in her encounter with the angel Gabriel in the motion picture 'The Nativity Story' (2006)
“‘You will conceive and give birth to a son
and you will name Him Jesus. He will be very great and will be called the Son
of the Most High. The Lord God will give Him the throne of His ancestor David.
And He will reign over Israel forever: His Kingdom will never end!’ Mary asked the angel, ‘But how can this
happen? I am a virgin.’” (Lk
1:31-34, NLT, my emphasis)
Once again, consider Mary’s age. We have to accept that as a
very young teenager, we can’t count on her maturity. Despite being brought up
by God-fearing parents, that doesn’t mean that she has the necessary wisdom to
understand the angel’s message. Otherwise, she wouldn’t have asked such a
question. Having said that, no one can fault her for asking and if truth be told,
most of us would, in her shoes, have had done and said the same thing.
What is very important about the above passage is the angel’s
proclamation of Jesus’ birth. It is, in the whole of Scripture, one of the most
exalted and anticipated narratives to behold because it speaks of a time event
that pretty much the whole world has been savouring. It is also the event that
we keep celebrating every year by reminding ourselves what the angel said:
“He will be very great and will be called the
Son of the Most High. The Lord God will give Him the throne of His ancestor
David. And He will reign over Israel forever; His Kingdom will never end!”
(Lk. 1:32-33, NLT)
In Jesus, the excitement of the fulfilment of the ages is
about to come. The Messiah, so breathtakingly awaited in the history of God’s
people, promises to bring to union, the everlasting reign of David and the
pledge of life to the family of Jacob (Israel). And it seeks to do that by
enabling His people to understand how special – and powerful – His Name is. Derived
from the Hebrew word meaning “Saviour,” the name held enormous significance,
denoting the promise of the One who will come forth and save His people.
All that is fine but no one in their right mind, not least
Mary, could imagine how Jesus would come. None expected that she would be
called to conceive a child in a totally unexpected way. It was both
unimaginable and unthinkable. And of all people, God chose her to be the one to
know two special roles – the one she was about to play and the one the child
would fulfil in the salvation of all God’s people. It’s little wonder then that
Mary needed to ask, “But how can this happen? I am a virgin” (Lk. 1:34, NLT).
In the original Greek manuscript, the word “virgin” (‘parthénos’ Gk. παρθένος)
is actually not part of Mary’s original response. A clearer and purer version
is available from the King James Version (KJV) Bible where the translation puts
it as “…seeing I know not a man” (Lk 1:34, KJV), in which the word “know” is
originally ‘ginṓskō’ (Gk. γινώσκω), meaning “to come to know, to
recognise, to perceive.” Contextually, the word ‘ginṓskō’
refers to “sexual intimacy with a man.” So, given all that, what did Mary want
to say?
Here are two simple possibilities:
Firstly, Mary might be thinking that what the angel proposed
couldn’t happen because she was not intimate with a man, any man for that
matter. Or she could be wondering how God could do this if the normal means of
pregnancy wasn’t available given the fact that she had neither a man in her
life nor was she promiscuous.
In that sense, what the angel said to her obviously had to be
a supernatural act, a miracle no one had ever seen before. If the parting of
the Red Sea was some sight to behold, this virgin birth would be seismically
different. Mary’s response was justifiably innocent because even she knew that
miracles couldn’t just occur all of a sudden but then as we know, this was how
her own cousin’s husband, Zacharias, felt (Lk 1:18).
Or perhaps, secondly, Mary’s response revealed a complete
utter disbelief not in a doubtful sense but more like an incredulity. The
things that the angel said to her couldn’t possibly be within the scope of her
understanding. We must be mindful that Mary was just an ordinary country girl
in a rather insignificant town with a less-than-perfect reputation. It wouldn’t
be too far-fetched to think that she might even question why something like
this would happen to her. Mary’s response could therefore likely be one of
wonderment and dazzled amazement though ultimately, nothing would remove her
from her faith.
People often say that it’s never a good idea to question God
especially if it’s done in doubt. Zacharias did that. He paid a price –
temporarily, at least – with his disbelief. Mary certainly questioned but it
was obvious that the angel didn’t perceive it to be something punishable. The
fact is Mary wasn’t casting doubts or belittling his message and in that sense,
God saw no issue with her inquisitiveness. And that’s a good thing to know.
Portrayals of Mary's parents Joachim and Anna in the motion picture 'The Nativity Story' (2006)
Portrayals of Mary's parents Joachim and Anna in the motion picture 'The Nativity Story' (2006)
Mary’s question was different. God saw it as an opportunity
for a very young girl to grow and learn. In the same way, we also benefit when
we ask questions that help broaden our minds and hearts and enhance our
understanding of God’s will. Asking questions and seeking the right answers
deepen our faith and broaden our wisdom. It adds meaning and purpose to our
Christian life and even if the questions draw no answers, the exploration of
our faith will bring us closer to Him.
Mary’s question was born straight out of
faith. Unlike Zacharias, it was not seeded in doubt.
Part IV: Mary’s humbleness in spirit
Portrayal of the angel Gabriel in the motion picture 'The Nativity Story' (2006)
Portrayal of the angel Gabriel in the motion picture 'The Nativity Story' (2006)
“The angel replied, ‘The Holy Spirit will come upon you and the power of the Most High will
overshadow you. So the baby to be born will be holy, and He will be called the
Son of God. What’s more, your relative Elizabeth has become pregnant in her
old age! People used to say she was barren but she has conceived a son and is
now in her sixth month. For the word of God will never fail.’ Mary responded, ‘I
am the Lord’s servant. May everything you have said about me come true.’ And
then the angel left her.” (Lk 1:35-38, NLT, my emphasis)
Without a doubt, the most uniquely powerful message is in
verse 35. There it is, the grounded truth revealed about faith that is centred
on the triune God. In that verse alone, all three persons in God are revealed –
God the Father whom we declare as “Most High” followed by Jesus, the “Son of
God” and then the overshadowing presence of the Counsellor whom we know as the
“Holy Spirit.” It is this power combining the three persons in a single breath
that underscores God’s purest intention and purposeful design on Mary.
Now, let’s look at part of the last verse. The NLT Bible puts
it as:
“Mary responded, ‘I am the Lord’s servant. May everything you have said about me come true.” (Lk 1:38,
NLT, my emphasis)
Next, take a look at the King James Version (KJV) translation:
That, however, reads far more poignantly in the King James
Version, which says:
“And Mary said, ‘Behold the handmaid of the
Lord; be it unto me according to thy
word.’” (ibid, KJV, my
emphasis)
We see two different ways of saying the same thing but in my
mind, one has a functional value in that it’s easy to understand what Mary is
saying. On the other hand, the other is simply profound and powerful. Awesome
even.
“Be it unto me according to thy word.” That means, may it be
to me as you have said. That’s truly an incredible thing to say. Coming from
such a young and simple country girl who, in our day and age, hasn’t even finished
high school, that’s even more startling and
humbling. That’s because Mary was well aware of what her submissiveness
could actually mean. It’s easy to say words when you don’t mean it. It’s far
harder to say what you mean knowing that
there is a price to pay. Mary’s words could easily fall into the latter
category.
Over two thousand years ago, life for someone like Mary was
entirely different. Although betrothed, we know she lived with her parents.
Saying such things could cause a serious fallout in her family. Despite their
godliness, her parents would be under severe pressure to punish her and then to
reject her episode with the angel.
Most people – probably including her own parents – could view her encounter with the angel as an excuse to cover up an illicit adulterous affair with another man. In other words, very few would think that Mary wasn’t lying and that an angel did appear before her. Such a story was simply too incredible to be believable.
Most people – probably including her own parents – could view her encounter with the angel as an excuse to cover up an illicit adulterous affair with another man. In other words, very few would think that Mary wasn’t lying and that an angel did appear before her. Such a story was simply too incredible to be believable.
It is entirely plausible to believe that if the angel’s
intervention was not timely, Mary’s betrothal to Joseph would already be
annulled. No doubt his reaction would be strong but many would come to
sympathise with him. The divorcement would be shameful and humiliating but it
would set the stage for him to move on, leaving Mary with all the burden to
fend for herself. With Joseph out of the picture, it would be very doubtful if
she could ever be of marriageable material for any other eligible Jew at least
in Nazareth.
In the strictest of Jewish traditions, a daughter who brings
disgrace to the family could face serious repercussions. Depending on the
extent of shame, the punishment could be severe. Adultery is a very grave allegation
and if the parents truly believed Mary’s pregnancy had something to do with it,
they would likely not want to have anything to do with her and that alone would
have left her feeling very vulnerable.
Knowing that the townspeople would be deciding her fate would
be even more devastating to such a young girl. If so, the rest is just downhill
all the way. Branded an adulterer, it’s not difficult to see where that would
lead to. With her parents having abandoned her, Mary would face persecution and
legal problems. The most obvious thing she would have to face is stoning and
like Stephen, there would be little chance for escape. In other words, a
horrible death would have awaited her.
If, by some miracle, she were to escape severe persecution
(meaning stoning), she would certainly have to wear the label of an adulteress
or a harlot for the rest of her life. In practical terms, that would mean
wherever she went, people would snigger, laugh and mock her. Men would assume
and view her as nothing more than a ‘piece of meat.’
It’s easy to talk about getting her married off very quickly but finding a suitable suitor who would be willing to commit to it would be, at best, difficult. So with no family backing, Mary would easily find herself on her own and if she couldn’t get work to cover herself financially, she’d eventually find herself becoming a prostitute.
A tender moment between Mary and Joseph in the motion picture 'The Nativity Story' (2006)
It’s easy to talk about getting her married off very quickly but finding a suitable suitor who would be willing to commit to it would be, at best, difficult. So with no family backing, Mary would easily find herself on her own and if she couldn’t get work to cover herself financially, she’d eventually find herself becoming a prostitute.
A tender moment between Mary and Joseph in the motion picture 'The Nativity Story' (2006)
Mary might be highly favoured in God’s eyes but if her life
were to be turned upside-down (with a pregnancy she’d struggle to explain),
that would be something else altogether. But as it turned out, it’s the kind of
irony that underscores the exceptional way by which God works. Just as we think
the worst of what could happen, God turns the tables and made it look like the
greatest event the world has ever witnessed.
Of course, at the centre of it all was Mary’s choice. She
agreed to present herself at God’s behest. Despite her tender age, she knew
about being the Lord’s servant. She knew to be part of His will. And quite
probably, Mary’s spiritual maturity was the result of godly parents who taught
her well. And all this, in its gist, is the bedrock of our discipleship. In her
encounter with the angel, Mary accepts the truth that God is sovereign. We can
learn from her attitude and look to our relationship with God so that we too
can serve the Lord obediently and submissively and not be a master of our own
destiny.
Mary understood well enough not to be in the way of the
Messiah who was to come. She was obviously well taught – to make such a
decision at such a young age – by her parents to properly understand and accept
her role as God’s instrument. This was especially so, knowing that she actually
had an easier choice of avoiding all of that.
She could have elected to master her own destiny and focus
purely on her own desires. She could easily have felt that it was far less
threatening and more straightforward to steer clear of the difficulties and
pain that could have gone her way. Considering the unavoidable ostracism,
chastisement, mockery and serious life-threatening repercussions, it would have
been very tempting to simply say no and walk away. After all, an inexplicable pregnancy
was like a time bomb waiting to explode in her face.
Let’s admit it – getting involved in doing God’s work isn’t on
top of everyone’s list. Most of us are far likelier to not want to because no
involvement means no complications. Many of our ethnic Chinese Christians in
Malaysia are wont to tell their children to stay away from church work because
it doesn’t pay well (or even not at all) not to mention embarking on a pastoral
career. And yet, Mary chose to respond to God positively. And in doing so, she
set a precedent for us to do the same and say, “Behold the servant of the Lord,
be it unto me according to Your word.”
The way we see it, the coming birth of Jesus had nothing to do
with Mary’s plans or her timing. It wasn’t a centre stage for the world to
declare Mary as the holiest person alive in the world because she wasn’t. No
matter what the Roman Catholics might want to say, she wasn’t and never was. As
a human, she was born with sin like all of us.
Instead, Jesus’ birth was all about God’s timing and the way
He did things. From the exquisite choices He made and the perfection of His
execution, it was a typical masterstroke. Mary might have found herself in a
bit of a bother but the far larger picture was God’s beginning of a process of
bringing the biggest and most important change to the world.
Through the coming of the world’s first Christmas, He has put
into motion a path to redemption and reconciliation through Christ who brings
to us the promise of salvation. And by that, He has opened a new way for us to
review our lives, to realign our priorities and to reconsider how we can be
part of His plan. And Mary’s response to the angel was central to it all.
Although God’s chosen biological mother to the Messiah, Mary
had no distinct advantage over any of us. As far as we know, she was neither a
scholar nor someone with outstanding capabilities or unusually rare skills. All
she was, was a young homely girl who was betrothed at that time. Her only
‘qualification,’ as far as many of us know, was that she could do house chores.
But to God, none of this mattered. However, we can take courage, realising that
Mary’s opportunity to respond to God is the same as what each of us is given
today also. Since we’re all part of the family of God, this should not be a
surprise.
But here’s the message we can all learn – we’re just like Mary
and like her, we don’t have any qualifications that warrant us serving God in
deference to others. We can stop counting on our university degrees or whatever
honorific titles that add endless dotted capital letters after our names. We
can forget about the glitzy material wealth on show because God won’t ever be
interested in the least bit. Neither will He care about whatever power that
comes with all the highfalutin positions in the dizzying corporate world.
Frankly, we have no place to be in service to God because our
sinfulness puts paid to it. But in Mary, we see opportunity through grace and
favour. We realise that we are on equal footing with someone like Mary. So long
as we’re in the family of Jesus, we do have that amazing chance. Mary’s conduct
in response to the angel certainly showed us the way.
A response of faith
Scene between Joseph and Mary in the motion picture 'The Nativity Story' (2006)
Scene between Joseph and Mary in the motion picture 'The Nativity Story' (2006)
For more than two thousand years, the same story is told and
retold at the end of every year throughout the world. That is incredible enough
as it is but then we also somehow let Mary’s role slip through our fingers.
There is no doubt that the Good News begins with the main
plot. It is predictable and significant all the same. Telling the story of
Jesus’ birth is right at the centre of Christmas. It’s the cornerstone of how
we keep the faith and persist in listening to the message year in and out.
However, in Mary’s role comes a slightly different message but nonetheless, it
is the same one God has for each and every one of us today.
Just like how He put Mary in a fix through the angel Gabriel,
what if He turns our own routines upside-down just to see if we have what we
need to be committed to His will? What if the things He asks us to do can
potentially derail our routines and even place us on the brink of survival?
What if we realise that to submit to God makes us a target for persecution or
condemnation?
For all that, once again, Mary is our benchmark. The late Karl
Barth, Protestantism’s greatest theologian of the previous century in his book
entitled, ‘The Great Promise: Luke 1,’ referred to Jesus’ mother:
“Here is an event, unique
and beyond question repetition, an event which is totally without analogies,
which stands out of the series of other events at the Advent as much as Mary is
a figure absolutely raised above all the other figures of the Advent: the
extreme end of those who have received the promise and now wait for the Lord.”
(Barth, 2004)
That’s a very bold statement to make but it’s also
refreshingly accurate. If we see John the Baptist as someone who reminds us to
prepare the way of the Lord, Mary resonates with the greater need to prepare
Him room. In her, we see the real response of faith.
This brings me to the time when I was a student at the school of
my father’s alma mater. A Roman Catholic missionary school with a past
reputation the envy of many in the country then, I recall a wooden life-size
statue of Mary standing erect but quietly near the entrance to the chapel that
has since been dismantled to make way for a hostel on the same floor for Muslim
boarders.
Those were the days when I had to walk past the statue on the
way to attend catechism classes. As a young teenager during then, I remember
that she looked composed, pure and flawless. Indeed, there was that quiet
strength about her. And so, just to walking past and looking ever briefly at
it, there was that undeniable ‘presence’ I felt. Of course, being a Roman
Catholic school, Mary’s reverence was undeniable and unavoidable. In those
‘politically incorrect’ days, that statue was a powerful reminder of the
school’s roots with the Holy See.
Going back further to my prep school days, kids like us were
required to begin our classes with a prayer. We would also end our day with a
prayer before we were let out of class. Looking back, I was grateful for the
experience because it was in school that we learned about the Lord’s Prayer as
well as the Ave Maria, the traditional Catholic prayer seeking Mary’s
intercession.
In the early Eighties, I became a born-again Christian but I
never forgot my roots in the missionary school. Yet of course, in our
Protestant setting, we spend far less time knowing, let alone understanding,
who Mary was.
Other than acknowledging that she was Jesus’ biological mother, she received very little attention as far as the contemporary Christian position. We can attest to this by looking at the limited attention she received beyond the four Gospels and Luke’s rendition of the Acts. Paul’s letters, for that matter, mention nothing of Mary other than to say ‘mother of Jesus.’ It’s as if she never existed.
Other than acknowledging that she was Jesus’ biological mother, she received very little attention as far as the contemporary Christian position. We can attest to this by looking at the limited attention she received beyond the four Gospels and Luke’s rendition of the Acts. Paul’s letters, for that matter, mention nothing of Mary other than to say ‘mother of Jesus.’ It’s as if she never existed.
Here’s a quick look at the two spots in the Old Testament
where Mary is mentioned not by name but indirectly:
Gen 3:15 – Moses alluded
to Mary when he mentioned “the woman” here.
Isa 7:14 – Isaiah refers
to Mary as “a virgin” in his prophecy about the birth of Jesus.
But of course, the Gospels provide most of the references to
Mary because understandably, she lived during the time in which the New
Testament is depicted to us. Other than Luke 1:26-38, here are the following entries
where both Luke and Matthew including Mark* do mention Mary by name, meaning
that there are no issues with uncertainty or ambiguity:
Author
|
Passages
|
Luke
|
Lk 1:41-43, 48, 2:19,
34-35 including Acts 1:13-14
|
Matthew
|
Mt 1:20, 2:11
|
Mark
|
Mk 6:3
* Although Mark
mentions Mary in this verse, he says nothing about the virgin birth of Christ
|
Yet,
there are also other incidents where Luke, Matthew, John and Paul indirectly
refer to Mary without her name being mentioned. Here are the ones:
Author
|
Passage
|
Observation
|
Luke
|
Lk 2:46-49
|
Luke recorded the
incident in the temple where Mary and Joseph found young Jesus among the
rabbis, listening to them and also asking them remarkable questions. In these
verses, the apostle referred to Mary as “his mother” as well as “your father
and I” but there is no dispute that these references point to her.
|
Lk 2:51
|
The same applies to
this verse where Mary in conjunction with Joseph are referred to as “them.”
|
|
Matthew
|
Mt 12:46
|
In this verse, Matthew
refers to Mary indirectly as “his mother”
|
John
|
Jn 2:3-10
|
In this verse, John
refers to Mary very clearly as “the mother of Jesus.”
|
Jn 19:25-27
|
The same goes here
with Mary referred to indirectly as “his mother”
|
|
Rev 11:19-12:2
|
John in his visions
sees Mary but he only refers to her as “a woman clothed with the sun, with
the moon under her feet and on her head, a crown of twelve stars; she was
with child and she cried out in her pangs of birth, in anguish for delivery.”
We learn that the queen of the apostles (the twelve stars in Revelation) is
said to be Mary.
|
|
Rev 12:5
|
Again, John refers to
“she” as Mary within the context of the reader knowing who her son is.
|
|
Rev 12:7
|
In the war waged by
the dragon against “the woman” or “her,” John is referring to Mary.
|
|
Paul
|
Gal 4:4
|
Paul refers to Mary
indirectly as “born of woman”
|
Since
the historical Protestant position tended to ignore her*, we have a debt to the
Roman Catholic Church for their effort in ensuring Mary’s place in the good
story.
* NOTE: It is important to not
misread this. Most Protestant churches then and today widely acknowledge Mary’s
position particularly in God choosing her and also her status as the mother of
Jesus. It is apparent that Mary exuded godliness and holiness and that she was
remarkably obedient and submissive to God. It is also correct to say that God
saw favour in her as Luke testified. But unlike the Roman Catholic Church, the
Protestant position is not to venerate her.
Hence we do not have the same position of praying for her intercession for the simple reason that she is not a God. As for the allegation that Christians are inclined to ‘ignore’ Mary, there is actually no concrete proof of that other than the fact that outside of the Gospels (essentially Luke and Matthew only), pretty much every author in the New Testament failed to acknowledge her or the virgin birth of Christ. But there are good reasons for this and here are some facts worth noting:
Hence we do not have the same position of praying for her intercession for the simple reason that she is not a God. As for the allegation that Christians are inclined to ‘ignore’ Mary, there is actually no concrete proof of that other than the fact that outside of the Gospels (essentially Luke and Matthew only), pretty much every author in the New Testament failed to acknowledge her or the virgin birth of Christ. But there are good reasons for this and here are some facts worth noting:
- Each Gospel was written to address a different audience and
therefore, it records a different aspect of Jesus’ life.
- Mark’s Gospel focuses on Jesus as a servant of the Lord and
therefore says little to nothing about His first thirty years of life. Mark
considers those years as not to his purpose.
- John’s Gospel focuses on Jesus as God from all eternity but
who became a human (Jn 1:14). He emphasises the sublime truth that Jesus came
into the world not in the manner in which He came. Like Mark, he also says
nothing about His first thirty years of life. John has little need to talk
about the virgin birth since he already informed his readers that Jesus had
existed in the beginning as God.
- Just because both Mark and John are silent about the virgin
birth doesn’t mean they were ignorant of it. It only means that for reasons
(given above), they chose not to mention it. Yet if we study the two Gospels
carefully, we will take note that they imply the knowledge of the virgin birth
without directly mentioning it.
- For example, Mark calls Jesus, Mary’s son but says nothing of
Joseph being the father because he was aware of not wanting to contradict the
virgin birth.
- In John’s Gospel, Jesus’ divine origins begin with the Jews
accusing Him of being illegitimate, meaning they were aware of Mary being
pregnant before her marriage. This then implies that they also had knowledge of
Joseph considering divorcement after the fact. John’s decision to record this
dispute with the religious leaders as proof that the virgin birth was well evident
and no ordinary event.
- Paul mentions nothing of the virgin birth or Mary because he
doesn’t deal with the life and story of Jesus. Yet in Galatians 4:4, he does
concede knowledge of it. That verse alone attests to Paul’s acknowledgement
that Jesus had a mother but not a human father.
As we struggle with our faith, Mary becomes someone from whom
we can learn much. Although many Christians have long understood her unassuming
part in the overall New Testament, real history suggests that her place in the
virgin birth of Jesus is forever immortalised. Her response paints a powerful
picture of faith that is commensurate with God’s grace.
As Scottish theologian P.T. Forsyth (1848-1921) said, “Faith
is not something we possess but something that possesses us.” It is the right
response when God reveals Himself in our lives. It is what obedience drives us
to do in the midst of God’s grace.
In Christ, we encounter a God whose grace defines what truly
loving and giving is. Nowhere else can we experience grace the way God reveals
in His love and care for us. It is His real character in action that epitomises
grace that literally no one can match let alone offer. It is unmatched because
it is neither superficial nor sentimental. It has no precedence and there is
nothing like it. To experience God’s grace is to understand why He is who He
is.
A scene involving Mary and her family members in Nazareth in the motion picture 'The Nativity Story'(2006)
A scene involving Mary and her family members in Nazareth in the motion picture 'The Nativity Story'(2006)
From the incident with the angel Gabriel, Mary saw God’s love
and care in action, learning some important lessons along the way. Firstly,
God’s love is neither fake nor corny. It’s as real as it can ever be but it’s
not something to get soppy over. Even so, as Mary’s encounter proves, God’s
love is not always easy or straightforward to handle.
Just as birth is accompanied by cries of joy as much as cries of pain, we also experience the piercing pain and emptiness when we confront loss in the form of death. From the beginning to the end of life’s journey, God’s love can often be tougher than we realise. For Mary, it began with the simple command, with “You will name Him Jesus” (Lk 1:31b, NLT).
Just as birth is accompanied by cries of joy as much as cries of pain, we also experience the piercing pain and emptiness when we confront loss in the form of death. From the beginning to the end of life’s journey, God’s love can often be tougher than we realise. For Mary, it began with the simple command, with “You will name Him Jesus” (Lk 1:31b, NLT).
When we consider that Mary’s big miraculous moment – the
virgin birth – required no human intervention, our faith too doesn’t because it
is grounded on trusting God. We place our complete trust in God to deliver us
from the pits of darkness and despair. Real faith is not one that is inherited
because our spouse or partner or parents are Christian. Instead real faith is
something we own because it is a gift we receive directly from God. It is
founded on a relationship that matters so centrally in our lives. And none of
it has anything to do with anyone else but God.
Shortly after my mother passed away, I spoke to my father
about his faith. Aware that his faith had long hinged on my mother’s – he
became a Christian because mom
decided to be one – it was important for him to understand that he could no
longer just be a Christian because of her. Now that she was no longer with us,
such faith was always going to be fragile and vulnerable. I explained to him
the importance of owning his own
faith, meaning claiming it to be his rightful own. And to do that, he needed to
personally seek God and have a direct relationship with Him.
In other words, my father’s relationship with God has to be
one where he experiences His love first hand and perhaps even be a witness to
the wonders and miracles He brings to His life. It was time for him to truly
understand why he believes in Him rather than to merely follow, in obedience,
what mom did before she passed away. It was, in many ways, the most important
thing he had to do for his own self now that it is something solely between him
and God. Without mom around, this was actually the only thing remaining that he
must do to bring real meaning to his life.
Thinking about how Mary’s response placed her in the most
unsettling position, requiring God to intervene in order to reinstate her
betrothal, we are not much different. When we accept God into our lives, we
allow our faith to be used for the larger battles in our lives, the kind that
has the same potential to rock us beyond our imagination. They can come in
different guises – failures, crises, setbacks, discouragements and even deaths
– but they’re the ones that God uses to shape us for things to come.
No one told Mary what to say at that moment with the angel.
Neither her parents nor anyone. In the same way, with the exception of God, no
one else can create faith in us also. We may think that we became Christian
because we were inspired by someone else but they only shape our journey
because behind the whole life-scape, it’s always God who is pulling the strings
and orchestrating things and people in place. Only He has the plan as to how we
discover faith in each of us. Only He tells us that we have been chosen and
blessed. Only His grace finds favour in us.
So typically of God, He chooses those we least expect to do
His will. The prophet Isaiah reminds us that after all, He doesn’t think the
way we do (Isa 55:8-9); so, it’s no surprise that those who aren’t on our radar
are often the ones He favours, Mary being an excellent example. A young girl
from an evidently poor family living in the backwaters of Nazareth isn’t the
kind that features on a hardbound coffeetable book but it is her whom God
called for the Saviour of the world to be born though there is a further catch
– the birth of Jesus was to be before
Mary’s wedding and not after.
God’s decision for the birth to be prior to her wedding was
not without reason although still, it would spark serious repercussions in
Mary’s young life. Jesus had to come before
she could have her own biological children. Jesus had to stand out as a
virgin birth, immaculately conceived by the seed of the Holy Spirit and not
man. In having His way, it is us who found it unacceptable. It is our culture
and tradition and narrow-mindedness as well as our unwillingness to accept
God’s unlimited sovereign power stands in the way of us understanding. Till today,
there are still millions who refuse to.
But God is God. In Him, rules are rewritten or in this case,
they never mattered. In the Jewish tradition and culture of the day, a married
woman’s position in society is a reflection of her husband’s and also her
ability to conceive and bear offspring. The Bible offers many visages of this.
Hannah suffered at the hands of Penninah, the other wife of
Elkanah, her husband. In 1 Samuel 1:6-16, Scripture tells the story of how
barrenness caused Hannah to weather the storms of society. Penninah mocked her
for it as she bore Elkanah child after child while all Hannah could do was to
stand and watch in torment. As Lillian Klein wrote, “the desperation of
Hannah’s vow indicates that merely bearing a male child would establish her in
the community.”
Sarah, wife of the patriarch Abraham, was also in a similar
position. Like Hannah, she too was barren but she was far older. Thinking that
she was too far advanced in age to bear even a child, she resigned herself to
suggestion that their Egyptian maid, Hagar, procreate with Abraham (Gen
16:2-4).
All that did was to shift the balance of the dynamics to the point where the maid no longer respected her (v.4) simply because her mistress could not bear children but on the other hand, she could. The torture became unbearable enough for Sarah to blame Abraham even though it was her who asked him to sleep with the maid (v.5).
All that did was to shift the balance of the dynamics to the point where the maid no longer respected her (v.4) simply because her mistress could not bear children but on the other hand, she could. The torture became unbearable enough for Sarah to blame Abraham even though it was her who asked him to sleep with the maid (v.5).
In the Book of Ruth, we learn that after being widowed, Ruth
the Moabitess decided to remain with her Israelite mother-in-law Naomi who
herself was also a widow, saying, “Where you go, I will go and where you stay,
I will stay. Your people will be my people and your God my God” (Ruth 1:16-17).
In so doing, of course, Ruth accepted the God of the Israelites as her God and
the Israelites as her people.
In 2:11, Ruth “left [her] father and mother and [her] homeland and came to live with a people [she] didn’t know before,” which is tantamount to saying that she cared enough for Naomi to give up everything she had before.
In 2:11, Ruth “left [her] father and mother and [her] homeland and came to live with a people [she] didn’t know before,” which is tantamount to saying that she cared enough for Naomi to give up everything she had before.
But of course, by doing so, she also left no guarantee of personal
security for herself. This was a huge risk Ruth took especially when
considering the relationship between the people of Israel and Moab at that
time.
Israel’s enmity with Moab
The history between the two nations would begin sometime
around when the Israelites were journeying to the Promised Land. Along the way,
they defeated Sihon, the king of the Amorites (Num 21:21-31). Fearing the same
fate could befall him, Balak, the king of Moab enlisted the prophet Balaam to
lay a curse on the Israelites (Num 22). However, once the prophet encountered
God, Numbers 24:10 tells us that he instead declared favour on Israel before
the Lord, which obviously wasn’t what Balak had in mind. And because of Balak
and Balaam’s actions, no Moabites were allowed to enter “the assembly of the
Lord” (Dt 23:3).
Yet, we discovered later that despite this impasse, Israelites
began to intermarry with Moabites and worse, worshipped pagan
Moabite gods. Further down the Book of Numbers, God, in His righteous anger,
commanded Moses, saying, “Take all the chiefs of the people and hang them in
the sun before the Lord, that the fierce anger of the Lord may turn away from
Israel” (Num 25:4). Given this piece of history, it should cause Ruth to
hesitate in returning with Naomi to Israel. Such was her boldness and loyalty.
Without
a doubt, Ruth’s devotion to Naomi came with a huge cost for her. Not only had
she left her own people to live with the enemy, she had basically turned her
back on them, knowing the tumultuous history between Moab and Israel. There is
also that little aspect of Ruth returning to her homeland as a traitor and if
that proved to be the case, it’s unimaginable what they could do to her. Only
Naomi’s other widowed daughter-in-law Orpah would have understood her fate,
having reluctantly chosen to return home.
Mary herself understood the tradition and culture of her own
people too. According to the apocryphal Gospel of James, Mary was the daughter
of Joachim and Ann, both of whom were godly and pious people. Anne was barren
and at her advanced age, her chances of bearing a child were as good as either
Sarah or Hannah.
Being barren was a very difficult piece of truth to swallow, given how narrowly focused Jewish tradition was at those who couldn’t contribute to family building. But they did what Hannah did with Samuel – her parents offered Mary to service as a consecrated virgin in the Temple of Jerusalem.
Joseph and Mary enters Bethlehem in the motion picture 'The Nativity Story' (2006)
Being barren was a very difficult piece of truth to swallow, given how narrowly focused Jewish tradition was at those who couldn’t contribute to family building. But they did what Hannah did with Samuel – her parents offered Mary to service as a consecrated virgin in the Temple of Jerusalem.
Joseph and Mary enters Bethlehem in the motion picture 'The Nativity Story' (2006)
Without a doubt, Mary was cherished, loved and chosen by God for
who she was. And in responding in faith, the Lord placed in her, the Seed of
promise where she would be central to the birth of the Saviour for all
generations to come. And it’s the same for us. Mary’s experience is available
to us.
Our status with God has nothing to do with social success, material wealth or fame. No skills we acquire or our popularity are needed for God to find favour in us. Remember, we are loved first and with that, we can turn to God in faith, knowing that in Him, we are empowered to do great things.
Our status with God has nothing to do with social success, material wealth or fame. No skills we acquire or our popularity are needed for God to find favour in us. Remember, we are loved first and with that, we can turn to God in faith, knowing that in Him, we are empowered to do great things.
In Mary’s response, some say it was an example of weakness.
Many feminists reel at the idea of a young girl who timidly submitted to God
when she could have asserted herself with boldness. They expect someone like
Mary to take the upper hand and asked questions and sought assurance before
taking on the world with the virgin birth.
When compared to the story of her cousin’s son, John the
Baptist, Mary’s humble demeanour was never going to be popular with
contemporary thinking. On the other hand, the rough-and-tough John the Baptist
with his famous thunderous voice would be a more saleable proposition. In
contrast to Mary’s perceived feebleness, John epitomised strength and bravado.
But even so, God liked what He saw in her – that beautiful inner strength that
gave her a quiet aura.
And that quiet strength – meekness in any other word –
prepared her for great things at such a young age. She was able to do things
that many others at her age might not have been able to. Consider that in her final
trimester, Mary made the long trip to Bethlehem. That couldn’t have been easy.
Mothers today would be in a hue and cry if their daughters in a similar state
were to travel that far on a donkey.
And although the Bible doesn’t record it, Mary’s arrival in
Bethlehem wasn’t greeted by a rapturous welcome. She and Joseph were shunned,
which was why they had such great difficulties finding somewhere to stay the
night and invariably, give birth. In actual fact, history tells us that there
was no inn (or tavern) in Bethlehem itself and that the nearest one was quite
farther down the route closer to Jerusalem.
With Mary’s reputation (pregnancy out of wedlock), no Jew wanted to be seen offering a helping hand. There were probably rooms available but they were all out of bounds for Mary and Joseph. This was just one of many such stigmatised ill-treatments they received up till the time of Jesus’ birth. And so in that sense, Jesus was brought into the world under very trying circumstances; certainly not the kind that we’ve been hearing all our lives.
With Mary’s reputation (pregnancy out of wedlock), no Jew wanted to be seen offering a helping hand. There were probably rooms available but they were all out of bounds for Mary and Joseph. This was just one of many such stigmatised ill-treatments they received up till the time of Jesus’ birth. And so in that sense, Jesus was brought into the world under very trying circumstances; certainly not the kind that we’ve been hearing all our lives.
But that wasn’t the end of it. After the birth, there was no
luxury of lying about and relaxing. For whatever rest that Mary certainly
deserved, there was none accorded because of the threat hanging over their
heads. With the tyrannical Herod on a rampage and hell-bent on having Jesus
killed, she and Joseph had to escape as quickly as possible to Egypt. Although
she was no longer pregnant, having an infant in tow would be just as difficult
especially knowing that their lives were in constant danger.
Even after the threat was over – Herod the Great died shortly
thereafter around 4BC – Mary then had to deal with the formative years of
Jesus’ life as a little boy, a son whom she would love but yet proved a
struggle to understand because here was a kid who was far from ordinary. Let’s
not forget that in those years, Mary had other children as well. We don’t know
how well they (the children) all got along with a young Messiah in the mix and
what that meant for Mary.
None of these, although testy, would have prepared a
much-older Mary to kneel before the cross on which her son was nailed, hung to
die. Being versed in Scripture courtesy of pious parents, she would have been
aware of the prophecies of a Saviour who would come to take on the sins of the
world but nothing could prepare a mother to watch her son this way even if she
knew why. As she watched her son in agony, a sorrowful Mary drew strength from
God, knowing all too well that this was well within the Lord’s will. Her
strength was in God. Her strength glorified Him.
Of course, none of this mean Mary was fearless. Far from it.
Even as she committed to the Lord’s plan before the angel Gabriel, she would
have known what would happen to her son who was set to fulfil the Father’s will.
Never underestimate the gravity of this.
Remember, she was only a young and innocent girl when she was thrust into the limelight. Acknowledging the angel’s instruction was one thing but placed at the centre of the world’s most important event was something else altogether. This was history in the making but for Mary, it was probably truly frightening.
Remember, she was only a young and innocent girl when she was thrust into the limelight. Acknowledging the angel’s instruction was one thing but placed at the centre of the world’s most important event was something else altogether. This was history in the making but for Mary, it was probably truly frightening.
What Mary felt, we’ll never really know because Luke didn’t
offer us a deeper sense of it. But nowhere in any of our lives will we ever fully
understand the depth of it. Nowhere will we have any stories to compare with Mary’s.
We think we have, that is, until we come to grips with what Mary had to go
through, what her response was and what it meant to her in the immediate
aftermath. While our stories might have some personal individual impact, Mary’s
story transformed all four corners of the world.
We keep reading about the Christmases through all the years
gone by. Some of us get to experience it in more than one country. Yet we
cannot properly perceive the reality of what happened that day when Mary was
met with by the angel Gabriel. Words can only help us form a certain picture in
our minds but it’s impossible to fully know or feel the extent of it.
And yet despite all the fear, Mary’s strength sprang from
nowhere. Like a single green leaf sprouting from a ground destroyed by a
bushfire, there is hope in faith. Though this is strength borne of suffering,
it couldn’t have come from ourselves. We are too weak for that. And faith
itself doesn’t prepare us for pain, sadness or disappointment. Just as Mary
experienced, faith alone without resilience is always tough. Even at so young
an age, she was not spared of her humanity but in God, she could draw great
strength and an iron resolve to live life to the fullest and to live it
redemptively.
A response in obedience
Mary contemplating after her encounter with the angel Gabriel in the motion picture 'The Nativity Story' (2006)
Mary contemplating after her encounter with the angel Gabriel in the motion picture 'The Nativity Story' (2006)
And there you have it. The same usual Christmas story told and
retold over the ages, faithfully this time every year across the world.
However, this year, we have the chance of looking at it through the lens of a
very young and unassuming girl whose faith has now become our focal point. And
still, despite how much ground we’ve covered here, there can be some of you who
may have lingering questions, questions that are likely borne of intellectual
frustration for I cannot think of any other reason.
Some of you might ask why Mary, after asking the right
question, chose not to wait for all her doubts to be answered. Why did she put
up with all the risks without being given any assurances herself? How could
anyone, much less a girl so young, accept at face value what the angel said?
Why didn’t she come up with some tougher questions? Why accept everything the
angel said in reply? Why didn’t she just keep probing?
Yet none of these are necessarily intellectual questions.
They’re simply questions anyone could have asked. More so, if you doubt God has
the best interest in your future. Or if you’re unsure that His will is good
enough for you. Maybe you think it’s too compromising to leave everything to
Him. Perhaps you’re worried that the trade-off is you lose your sense of
comfort or freedom. If these are the kind of issues you have, they’re hardly
intellectual. Rather, they all have one thing in common – fear.
Swiss Protestant theologian, the late Emil Brunner (1889-1966)
once wrote, “Faith is obedience, nothing else; literally, nothing else at all.”
Quite possibly, he was referring to Mary’s response to the angel Gabriel. Faith
isn’t about dwelling on what we don’t understand. It’s also not about
procrastinating over anything because we can’t decide. Instead, faith is being
obedient to God so that we can be safely assured to be integral to His will.
And so, faith is not an act. It is not a flash in the pan or
something that comes and goes. It is, on the other hand, a process. Faith is an
outpouring of reliance on God, leaving whatever we don’t know behind. We care
about what we know and what we know is God’s eternally reassuring love for us.
As for whatever else that we have neither knowledge of nor a proper understanding
about, we’re better off leaving them the way they are. If we can do that, then
we can commit all of ourselves to the task of knowing and understanding about
God in Christ.
In taking one last look at the angel Gabriel’s message, we may
find something quite extraordinary – as God readies for a seemingly impossible
miracle (the virgin birth), Mary, on the other hand, has to prepare herself to
face ridicule, have her morals questioned and then very likely be alienated,
suffering in the pain of rejection and persecution.
But God didn’t choose an extraordinary person to go through
all of that. He didn’t choose a well-matured young woman in her prime. He also
didn’t choose a married woman who
would understand about pregnancies either. Instead Mary was simply an ordinary
little country girl who probably wasn’t thinking about getting pregnant and
having babies. At 12 years old or thereabouts, that is hardly the prospect.
Rather, she would have been preoccupied with house chores and not much else.
And for all that, Mary’s response leave us with the most
powerful few words that may have gone fairly unnoticed for centuries but this
Christmas, they resonate beautifully with our faith. “Behold the servant of the
Lord, be it unto me according to Your word,” she replied. That alone made her
truly exceptional and someone we can humbly learn from.
Recommended reading
materials
Allison, Dale C. and
Davies, W.D. (May 2005) Matthew: A
Shorter Commentary (London, UK: T&T Clark International) available at https://www.amazon.ca/Matthew-Commentary-W-D-Davies/dp/0567082490
Barth, Karl (Apr 2004) The Great Promise: Luke 1 (Eugene, OR:
Wipf and Stock Publishers) available at https://www.amazon.com/Great-Promise-Karl-Barth/dp/1592446507
Bond, Helen and Goodacre,
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